I’ve been listening to my intuition and without question reaching out to a lot of people on my friends’ list with an invite to connect with me on a call.
I’ve been asking (as I am wanting to get to know those on my friends’ list here) to learn more about them and what it is they want to create or expand into that they feel is the next stage of their relationship with themselves / life.
I am wanting to connect with the people as people – beyond their Facebook profile.
It’s something I had avoided doing for a long long time … it was something I was asked to do many times by different mentors … I *know* it is through conversations that abundance results (in money, clarity, and many other ways).
It’s only now due to the fact I finally feel ‘connected’ to “me” that I can do this with more ease than I did before 💕
Here’s the thing: I AM GENUINELY CURIOUS — I am even upfront and truthful and state as such in the message: “call it a child’s curiosity and wanting to connect more with the people”
Thankfully most people have been receptive. Those who it hasn’t resonated with for whatever reason have usually ignored me or just said they’re too busy .. which is okay 💕
I have only had one person who due to her cautiousness couldn’t trust that I was genuine in my connection. I get it. I’m not belittling her as I used to be her !
Someone would say “HI” to me via FB Messenger and I’d shut them down in a heartbeat because of how closed off and cautious and distrusting I was about people. (Ultimately, I was self-loathing – not kidding – because someone who is connected to love isn’t naturally distrusting.)
Now ? I’m a *lot* more open. I’m more receptive. I’m more trusting for the reason why people are reaching out to me. Also, for the men, I’m not as harsh either as I used to be (and I was harsh). ( Strongly recommend Queen’s Code for anyone who wants to transform their relationships with men !! )
Whilst I am more open… I also have boundaries and enough self-love (confidence) to also enforce those boundaries if I feel they’re being crossed at any time. It’s OKAY to say NO ! It is also okay to ask people to ‘give you space’ or ‘not right now’ or whatever.
Oh.. and this also applies if the person does offer you a service at the end of the call. Selling is the act of releasing the person from the illusion into truth / from disempowerment to empowerment / from fear to trust / from death to life.
Selling is a gift of love.
… and I don’t always have phone calls that result in selling something … this phone call from which this testimonial (attached) came from ended up being a connection call. We both got to know each other so much more better 💕 and that’s the gift we gave to each other.
Every phone call for me is about curiosity.
“Sales is a divine intervention of love, truth and liberation.” — Lorna Johnson
I’m led by my intuition as to where the call will go – I have no set agenda.
If I feel called to offer (“make a sale”), then I will without apology or shame because how can I be shameful of offering something so loving:
To assist the person to lay down their struggle … to guide them out of their pattern of deep victimisation … to trust (truly) themselves … and better self-worth, valuing themselves ? 💕
Every phone call for me is about me using my intuition and just like any muscle .. the more it is used .. the more it develops. 💪🏽
During every call I am providing safe-harbour for every person to be themselves without judgement or shame … and ultimately understand that they are infinitely powerful beings that do not fear. 🙏🏽💥
… and hence the reason every phone call I get to create magick 🌟 through curiosity