As much as you may want to have a glass of red wine or something alcoholic after a long stressful day – please avoid it. Alcohol numbs. Ultimately, we’re all here to feel everything that it is to be human thus stop for a moment and breathe. That’s it. Breathe. When we’re stressed, we’re not breathing adequately and usually in our ‘monkey mind’. If you can devote 5 minutes to taking some big deep breaths (in through the nose, expanding your belly and out through your mouth) you’ll find yourself in a totally different mental ‘state’. If you can also incorporate sound (on the out breath), touch (caressing yourself or just having your hands on your heart centre) and movement (of your hips – both men and women can do this) you have the potential for orgasmic bliss (with your clothes on).

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Hello Monday 🌟🔥😃💖 .. what the hell has the rest of the week going to surprise me with ?!
Thanks to my human/victim not being heard, healed and released she was fucking with my abundance.
I am in love and appreciation that I earned enough to “get by” last week (a few debts didn’t get paid due to how I had earned so little that week)… by today all my accounts were starting to look bleak.
MEN. 🚹
Specifically one man in my life … triggered my victim. Interesting how I had been doing the chasing for months … interesting that I felt like I couldn’t get any of my needs met either by myself and or OTHER men.
Interesting I felt afraid to let him go … afraid I wouldn’t attract another or better or whatever relationship …
This is more than about sex. Sex is part of this equation however not the whole picture.
As much as I thought I was enjoying both of these in my life .. I wasn’t … especially how my last orgasm was .. well … on Tuesday. (Personally I love orgasms and having only one per week is a symptom – I prefer to have at minimum 3 per week. Considering all the different types, variety and intensities – it’s actually great for me to keep me connected/grounded/in flow.)
AS SOON AS I let my (inner) victim to be heard & witnessed .. allowed her to speak both words and energetically … she disappeared !
She got what she wanted … and I said to her:
Yes and now it is time for you to go. 👋🏼
(I used my own mix of doing an aspecting process, journalling exercise and turning triggers to treasure process.)
Im Sorry. Please Forgive Me. I Love You. Thank You.
After releasing my victim I let my inner masculine take charge … he sent off two invoices for dog walking that were due … he checked emails to find out there was a tantra client booking request for yesterday I missed 😳 (as I was too busy denying my victim to be released) …
And my inner feminine was busy sending out requests to the universe and listening to the intuitive guidance …
Thanks to her magick …
🚹 MEN !!
She helped me attract a tantra client for today!
I also feel finally ready to do something I had stopped myself from diving into because of fear — TINDER
Yes I am a TINDER virgin.
Also an old playmate has become a possibility 😜💋 as I realise now thanks to Ej Lorna Kristie and a few other women … I *can* attract the men I desire and require.
(and yes I will also be available for the other gender identities as I’ve recently become pansexual due to my Tantra work)
I also realised I am strong enough a woman to have my boundaries respected by myself. 👌🏼💕
( note: this is NOT an invite for you to be sleazy and send me inappropriate messages via FB. )
Thanks to some guidance from Rebecca (yet ultimately myself) … I unlocked yet another full body orgasm ..
This one was different tho to the one on Tuesday.
This one came without resistance as I was in surrender.
It really did feel like it started with my pussy then the energy/orgasm went all thru me.
I also let my pussy have a sunbathe after in thanks 💋💥🙏🏼
Plus I was (and still am at the time of this post) a little blissed out .. when I ate something .. I actually took pleasure in it .. experienced the food I was eating in a totally present mindful (different) way.
What was interesting when I was self pleasuring (more tantric type of masturbation – I used mostly breath, a little movement, touch (not necessarily on/near my pussy) and sound) … I remembered something Eyal said to me at his last workshop … and opened my eyes to “connect” with “universe” as my partner .. and I saw … a bee buzzing around (abundance totem) … a small yellow butterfly (another abundance totem) … my kitty cat who was interestingly drawn to me from wherever she was …
And curiously I felt “held” 🙌🏼 during it 💕
If you got all the way to the end – thank you 🙏🏼💕 I needed to “blog” it ❤️
Now time to “get my priestess on” (tantra client on his way!) 🌟💖
PS If you did read this all the way to the end – type the word GAZ 🐶😂

How being generous to yourself = more pleasure + more money instantly … and it’s free!!

In the last week, I’ve been curiously playing with self-pleasure (my physical+sexual body), my relationship with money (my emotional+mental body which is where my beliefs reside) and intuition (my spiritual+energetic body) for anything I desire and require.
Has it been working ?
Yes. 💥💥💥
This is also what I like to refer to as having bewitchful confidence (it’s where I came up with that concept as well as The Bewitchful Body)
Bewitchful confidence is ultimately divine embodiment (all your ‘bodies’ are connected – ebb and flow (interplay) of when your divine masculine and divine feminine are working in harmony
This is also why for the longest time I have not resonated with the whole hoopla where women are meant to be goddessess. Whilst, yes, I’m a Goddess….. I’m also a God. I’m divinity embodied (or at least that’s who and what I endeavour to ‘be’ each day).
**Interesting side note: I was raised Catholic so this is going against everything I was raised to believe throughout my childhood because in Christianity we’re all born with original sin and ‘need to be saved’ 🙁 So yeh, I’ve been healing and stripping away that very ingrained (to my DNA level) belief all my life to get to this point!
Divinity embodied is all genders (there’s more than male/female!!) and none at the same time. It explains why I naturally deviated from hetrosexuality to bisexuality and am even starting to resonate with pansexuality lately.
Here’s where I’ll get real tho’.
Whilst you can collapse time when you are truly embody-ing your divinity .. and magick really DOES exist (and happen) “at the speed of light” (actually faster sometimes) …
For instance, I know that around every full moon I usually have my moon-time (aka my period)…. and it literally ‘came’ whilst I was typing this post (hahaha!)
Thus I am going to honour the fact that my body is cyclical.
I also honour the fact that I am cyclical on a daily basis – periods when I’m most creative and productive versus periods where I am not.
over-giving which leaves your drained, angry and resentful ?
feeling guilty that you’re being selfish, self-serving and indulgent when you have “me time” ?
“don’t have the time” to be generous to yourself ?
You + me = magick .. let’s talk ➡️ INBOX ME NOW 💋
If you’re still hesitant… let me ask you:
…. and if you’re still afraid you can always join The Bewitchful Connection ( Body | Love | Sexuality ) which is free

The Prosperity Praye

Read Aloud Every Day for 30 days

I am the source of all wealth.  I am rich with creative ideas. My mind abounds with new, original, inspired thoughts. What I have to offer is unique, and the world desires it.

My value is beyond reckoning. What the world needs and desires, I am ready to produce and give. What the world needs and desires, I recognize and fulfill. The bounty of my mind is without hindrance or limit. Nothing can stand in the way of my inspired creativeness.

The overflowing power of God life energy overcomes every obstacle, & pours out into the world, blessing & prospering everyone, & everything through me.

I radiate blessings, I radiate creativity, I radiate prosperity, I radiate loving service. I radiate Joy, Beauty, Peace, Wisdom & Power. Humanity seeks me and rewards me. I am beloved of the world.  I am wanted wherever I go.

I am appreciated. What I have to offer is greatly desired. What I have to offer brings a rich reward. Through my vision the world is blessed.  Through my clear thinking & steadfast purpose, wonderful new values come into expression.

My vision is as the vision of the mighty ones. My faith is as the faith of the undefeatable. My power to accomplish is unlimited. I, in my uttermost God Source, am all wealth, all power, all productivity. I hereby declare my financial freedom, NOW and henceforth forever!

Were there times in the past year YOU found anything sexual (esp. penetrative sex) unpleasurable ?

Believe it or not, I have. Yes, even someone like me who has awoken her physical/sexual + emotional/mental + spiritual/energetic bodies … have had them in divine communion … have had at least two incidents in the past year !

These two incidents were with two different men .. one of them I had been on a date with (yeh, only one date) .. and it was a divine double lesson in both knowing where my boundaries were as well as realising I no longer could just “sleep around” like I used to do :/ (yes, I had been going thru what I called a slut phase (which I use in an empowered word) for the last 10 years since my late 20s) …. and the other was part of a three-some (I was the other woman – the “Unicorn” as I’m known in swinger circles) …. I felt fine being with the other woman (interestingly) however as the both the man/woman couple in this circumstance were also dom/sub (man as master) … I wasn’t in the right head-space to be dominated as I was wanting sensuality and other ‘needs’ there weren’t met at the time.

Thus I’d say this percentage is higher if more women readily admitted it.

It’s thanks to these two incidents that I now have very strong (and stable) boundaries around penetrative sex … and am very picky with how I will allow someone (even myself!) penetrate me with penis, vibrators, fingers, tongues or anything 😍😋

I also am more intune with my physical/sexual body for what it needs at any point in time – whether it is energetic, sensual or sexual (‘fuck me now’), domination/submission/kink. Sometimes it’s a mixture of two 😉 as it was for me last weekend when I was with the man in my life (I don’t label the relationship in purpose) .. he intuitively knew exactly what I wanted without me saying 🙂

He had me over his lap (playing into my kinky-nature).. whilst also touching me sensually (which I had been craving all week) … and giving my ass a slap every so often .. whilst also asserting himself enough so that I stayed in surrender (as I did slip out of ‘allowance’ and surrender every so often) … and surrender I did .. and the whole experience was multi-orgasmic. He hardly penetrated me with his fingers .. and NEVER TOUCHED MY CLIT 💓💓

It’s amazing my own personal journey in regards to my clit: I’ve come from ‘only’ being able to get off being clitorial (and not really ‘knowing’ any other orgasms) to being able to get off in multiple ways beyond it .. even in other parts of my body outside of my genitals (back, neck, legs, inner thigh, feet, breasts, etc).

I’m okay with sharing this (even tho’ some people might regard this post as soft porn or erotica) as I want the reminder myself of what is possible .. without actual penis in vagina sex.

That whole experience was so … just … insanely orgasmic on all levels.

This is why I’m incredibly excited about attending Awakening Female Pleasure beyond yoni massage – Brisbane later this month 😁 …. you’ll have to join The Bewitchful Connection ( Body | Love | Sexuality ) for the inside pics, video and insights that I share in regards to the event.


BREATHE 🌬️ Without breath and a heartbeat there is no life in our bodies.



Take 3 big breaths in filling your lungs and using your diaphragm, place your hands on your heart chakra (middle of your chest) and feel “you”.
Then when you breathe out make a sound (release) and out reach your arms (in whatever way you want).
CONGRATULATIONS ! You just did something 100% selfish for you. 😍
You also did something bewitchful for your body.

How do you feel now after doing this ?

NAKED CONFIDENCE – Do you have it ?

… and I totally get it that most women (esp. around my age – I’m nearly 40) don’t have the same confidence with their naked bare bodies as I do.
I was able to free myself from the prison of my mind around my body back in my 20s when I was in an industry that thrives on the objectification of women: adult entertainment and “glamour” modelling.
It wasn’t easy. I *nearly* succumbed to getting a boob job (breast enhancement) at one point (plenty of women did).
Then when I started to discover my (bi)sexuality for the first time … My perception of my own body and that of other women changed.
Thanks to 7-8 years in the industry that’s a *lot* of naked women of different ages from 18yos to ladies who were well into their 30s … wow. The naked female form is magnificent.
Yes, even the ones with scars, flabby-ness, “bigger” ladies or what-have-you. There were a lot of imperfect strippers more than those who are perceived as perfect (and even then it was a bit of “smoke and mirrors” happening with fake tan, make-up, the way you move your body, etc).
Because you know what really mattered in the end ?
What guys in the strip clubs were drawn to the most ?
What I found most attractive and memorable ?
If you can stand in front of a mirror and smile without shame/self-loathing/self-criticism – I want to give you applause because *that* is actually not that common
As my experience with Beck Joan & her project The Tunnel Vision (Internationally acclaimed Nude Art photographer) this morning allowed me to experience.
Not surprising to those who really know me … I was the last woman to dress herself after being naked for hours this morning.
(And since we had all been bare naked since like 6-something am .. it was a bit chilly .. by the time 8-am-whatever rolled around the sun was awake.)
To be honest, I was really enjoying having the morning sun on my skin as I find it pleasurable and revitalising.
I wasn’t thinking “what if someone sees me” (tho’ it was a pretty private location) ..
I wasn’t thinking anything to be honest as I was enjoying connecting (even just in presence) with all the other women at the shoot.
I also had a fantastic time as it was …
believe it or not
my first ever GROUP art nude type of photo shoot
I’d been photographed solo all of my “glamour modelling career” in my 20s.
I didn’t even know I had this sort of experience on my “bucket list” until now.
I’m glad Universe gift-ed me this experience.
My hope is that I was able to ‘gift’ the other women my ability to show and shine …
Being naked is fun.
Being naked is free-ing.
Being naked is pleasure.