What would a priestess do after her gut decided to smack her around ?

Facebook status Saturday 8 April 2017

This one decided to find a beautiful soul to help provide a much needed tantric sensual body and yoni (pussy) massage.

After my gut decided to “chuck a tantrum” at me about trying to re-introduce sugar (in the form of TimTams, jelly beans, etc) into my diet as well as being mindful that I can’t have a lot of creamy goodness anymore (yay I’ve got a minor lactose intolerant now) … I posted all the sweets I had left over within various Facebook groups to find someone to give them away too.

Whilst I may have kicked my little sugar addiction (or more like drastically reduced it), not everyone is the same and I hold no judgement towards them as .. I WAS JUST LIKE THEM.

Now my gut was happier with me .. the next step was to re-connect to myself .. my body .. to give it ALL some love again .. and thanks to a special (male) friend … I got exactly that yesterday. 💕💋🌸

Thanks to the experience I was re-introduced to a lot of different touch sensations in different parts of my body (my whole body by the way) .. so there’s that 😄 … and then when it came to the yoni/pussy massage … whilst I do pretty damn good on my own 😜 there’s just something BETTER when someone else does this for you .. and even better .. when I ALLOW MYSELF TO RECEIVE it. 🙏🏽

It makes me wonder how the world would be if more women were able to experience this bliss ? To be able to really enjoy and love their bodies without guilt or shame ? To allow someone to give them this pleasure and even better to allow themselves to receive it ? How healing would it be ?

WOMEN: When was the last time you allowed yourself to receive pleasure or even had a mind-blowing orgasm (that didn’t involve your clit) ? ( Feel free to PM if you want to continue the conversation privately. Otherwise I’m just asking in a hypothetical sense. )

The trouble comes when you can’t come out from under the blankets…

You’re struggling? Good. That means you’re moving forward. Chasing something. Going after what you want.

Here’s the deal: Trying to change yourself or the world (both are interrelated) will eventually bring on doubt – about everything. What you do. Who you are. Who you want to be. All of it goes under the microscope. That’s normal.

The trouble comes when you can’t come out from under the blankets.

Whilst you’re learning how to switch your thoughts (there are numerous ways to learn to do this from ‘just doing it’, journalling, EFT/Tapping and so forth) .. something that also works great for me is a little tantric – using breath, sound, touch and movement.

Start moving your body especially focusing on moving your hips (however you want to move your hips there is no right or wrong here), caressing your body with your hands, feeling into your body whilst breathing.

Breathe in and do a full breath thru your diaphragm not the usual adult way thru your chest.. and on the out breath let whatever noise comes out.. come out. (If you don’t feel called to make a noise or cannot for whatever reason – that’s okay – just know you can let a groan, moan or whatever noise out on the out breath.)

Concentrate on the breath, hear the sound, feel your touch on your body and the movement of your body.

Do this for 5 mins and tell me how you feel … ?

If you start judging yourself, make a mental note when you did in this ritual and just keep going .. GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD and INTO YOUR BODY.

As soon as you’re in your body and out of your head you will FEEL .. and then you can uncover what’s under those low thoughts .. you’ll get more clarity. (They may not even be YOUR thoughts as sometimes we can take on other peoples’ beLIEfs about ourselves.)

All I know is the above works for me.

( Also KEEP YOURSELF HYDRATED as dehydration is also linked to depression. Have a drink of something WITHOUT sugar or caffeine in it. )

If you find anger is under this feeling low, take it out on a pillow: screaming into it is an oldie but a goodie that works for me to release anger. (There are other ways – PM me if you want to know more.)

Then breath again. Never underestimate the power of breathing.

Stand Naked In The Mirror … and Smile !

… even better stand naked in the mirror, smile, breathe and move your body to whatever is your favourite music  

and be even more daring .. do this during the daylight or with the lights on (if of a night) 🌟

#shakethatass #ownyourbody #loveyourself

Believe it or not (possibly not), there was a time in my life where this would’ve been difficult for me. I am thankful everyday that I decided to become a stripper (in my mid-20s) as that was the perfect experience I needed to overcome my body issues.

(imo) It’s an industry built on objectification of women, where you’re judged on your looks first and foremost especially when you work as an “agency dancer” (doing bucks parties and so forth).

.. and that validation mostly came from men and a few women 😉 … yes I seeked that validation outside myself for quite awhile because that is what I needed at the time … and it worked … my hair.. my itty bitty titties.. my (short) legs.. my ass.. my back.. my pussy.. every inch of me was desired by someone ‘out there’ (and still is even tho’ I’m nearly 40!) … all this validation ingrained in me & gave “permission” for me to adore my body every damn day.

Now? I’m long past needing external validation tho’ I do always welcome compliments 😜😘 because that’s just the universe reminding me .. oi! you’re awesome

“When you are turned on as a woman, your way of life changes, you will experience more love, pleasure, fulfilment, deeper connections, real intimacy and an inner and outer confidence that you will not find through any diet, dress, partner or job. ” — Lisa Hughes 🙏🏽

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